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The follies of age segregation

By Terence Kane - 10/22/09 10:53 AM ET

Yesterday morning, the “Today” program featured the distressing story of a Florida community that is trying to evict Kimberly Broffman, a 6-year-old grandchild living with her grandparents in an age-segregated community. Like millions of other children across the country, Kimberly’s grandparents are caring for her because her own birth parents are unable to do so. The grandparents have agreed to move out of the plus-55 community, but can’t sell their house in the collapsed Floridian housing market. The local neighborhood association is hoping a judge will order an eviction. This would most likely result in the sheriff removing Kimberly and placing her in foster care.


The retirement community in Largo, Fla., needs to withdraw the eviction request and allow the family the chance to sell their home. It’s astonishing that the homeowners association could subvert what basic human decency demands in the name of upholding the homeowners association rules. More broadly, however, age-segregated communities across the country should use the recession as an opportunity to re-engage themselves as a resource for children and the community. Age-segregated housing keeps seniors, who are an invaluable resource to our children, isolated and underutilized.

Fortunately, in contrast to the community in Largo, there are already some innovative senior housing models for children whose parents can’t care for them. The neighborhood of Hope Meadows in Illinois is a converted decommissioned Air Force base where seniors get reduced rent in exchange for assisting foster or adoptive parents raising children by being mentors, tutors and volunteer grandparents. Seniors and children benefit enormously from the community.

It’s easy to caricaturize this one incident and extrapolate it to the way all Floridians, or all seniors, feel about children, but there is an abundance of instances where seniors come together in support of children. A few years ago, older adult voters over in Miami overwhelmingly approved a record billion-dollar education bond issue. Most of these older voters approved the bond issue despite the fact that their own grandchildren didn’t live in Miami.

America might have been able to afford a degree of age isolation in the past, but that now seems wasteful and improvident. Investments and resources are never as effectively used when they are aimed at a narrow age group as when they are leveraged between age cohorts and generations. The homeowners association in Largo is making a mistake trying to evict Kimberly Broffman, but they’re also missing an even larger opportunity to use their accumulated talents to serve as a resource for children.


The views expressed in this blog do not represent the views or opinions of Generations United.

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Comments (12)

I agree 100%. I live in Pinellas county Florida and I am ashamed of the Lakes HOA. I have called them and told them so. They should allow and exemption until the Grand Parents can sell their house. To force the 6 year old into state custody is as mean as it gets.The chairman of the Lakes Homeowners association is:Leland Wheeler727-573-9289Give him a call and a piece of your mind.BY Andy A on 10/22/2009 at 13:04
I think that it is unfair to the other members of the hoa who pay a premium to live in an environment that is tranquil and without bother from screaming children. What happens when another family and another family want to do the same. When would it stop?BY Normal Guy on 10/22/2009 at 16:16
Yeah Normal Guy, you need to live without screaming children. Obviously a child's laughter is anethema to you. Hopefully, when you get old, that child you want to evict, chooses to not pay his Social Security and you, with no money, can go live under the bridge with Leland Wheeler.BY Jimmy Knuckles on 10/22/2009 at 17:46
Gee Normal Guy, I sure hope some family tragedy doesn't ever happen to you where you may find yourself in a similar situation. Of course, being the "Normal Guy", this could never happen to you!BY Gary N on 10/22/2009 at 17:47
Justice is supposed to be blind - not stupid.BY ZZMike on 10/22/2009 at 18:05
I was sickened and outraged at the heartlessness of these associaton people. How on earth they could sleep at night is beyond me. It is stories like this that test my faith in humanity and I am sorry to say that these callous individuals have lessened it for me. My only prayer is that someone with a whole lot of power and money can not only save this situation from a certain horrific and tragic outcome but also change the tables and put this association thru a horrific lawsuit that will bring them to their knees for this should be a crime to defame and humilate and innocent child in such a public forum!!BY Karla on 10/23/2009 at 11:24
ThereBY Pete on 10/23/2009 at 15:18
This makes me sad. If I were wealthy, I would buy the caring grandparents home they currently live in and buy them a new one. This child deserves to be around caring people of all ages not grumpy old people. As for Mr Wheeler he is a heartless, self centered, egotistical, uncaring, old man. Watching the video just want to slap the look off his face. If his parents are still around I bet they are proud of him?BY Ellen on 10/23/2009 at 19:40
Who in the World do these pray to at night if they even pray at all.This child and only a child has I hope rights to..It is a shame that there is such laws on the books to begin with.One day all these people will want someone to love them.Home owners if you have any heart at all please give them time to sale there house.You and the little girl and all children need all the love they get.May God Bless you and yes go to him on your thinking.BY ed stanton on 10/26/2009 at 07:29
How much distess can one child cause to shelfish individuals, you have had a lifetime to build up a debt to repay for your behavior. It is a child, we tolerate rapist, murders and others excuse's for their behavior. SO WE AS ADULTS "Target" someone who can't, you are shirkers of responsibility and cowards, "GOD's stewardship" of us is for those who can take care of those who can't themselves, so you should commend and help the family, The life and world changes and we adapt. That's the way the system "karma" works, "pass it along" and SHUT UP. We brag about how a great country we are, I served after college for eight years and I am ashammed of you!!!!!, as a serviceman and a citzen of your shelfish behavior. Bill KimbrellBY Bill Kimbrell on 10/26/2009 at 20:55

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