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But then again, Rep. Joe WilsonJoe WilsonDemocrats urged to be 'respectful' during Trump address Five things to watch for in Trump’s address A guide to the committees: House MORE (R-S.C.) hadn’t apologized for his ugly outburst, shouting “You lie!” at President Barack ObamaBarack ObamaOvernight Tech: FCC chief gives states more control over internet subsidies | Dems urge Trump to veto bill blocking online privacy rules | House boosts its mobile security Overnight Defense: Pentagon considers more troops for Afghanistan | McCain, Graham won't back short-term funding | GOP defends Trump rules of engagement Paul Ryan sells out conservatives with healthcare surrender MORE in the House chamber. His leadership — bless House Minority Leader John BoehnerJohn BoehnerPaul Ryan sells out conservatives with healthcare surrender Matt Schlapp: 5 lessons Trump, Ryan must learn from healthcare debate Nunes rebuffs calls for recusal MORE (R-Ohio) for trying — failed to convince Wilson, who was busy counting his rapidly mounting political contributions, that this was the kind of behavior members apologize for in the U.S. House of Representatives. Or at least it once was, back in the day.

Therefore Pelosi, who knew she couldn’t convince Grayson to apologize no matter how she tried, told reporters that “apparently, Republicans are holding Democrats to a higher level than they are holding their own members ... if anybody’s going to apologize, everybody should apologize.”

Wouldn’t that be nice? No, in the new political reality apologies will be reserved only for crimes. Decency and dignity are dinosaurs. That it would occur to anyone to shout at a U.S. president, let alone accuse him of lying in the House chamber, would have been unimaginable just a short time ago. To throw the Holocaust around while accusing Republicans of being “Neanderthals” who want people to die may not be the same as insulting the president in front of 40 million Americans, as Grayson said Wilson did, but it achieves a new, similar low.

You could say Grayson was modeling a Palinesque brand of political rhetoric — if Sarah Palin could please her base falsely accusing Democrats of pushing “death panels” for the elderly and vulnerable, including her own son, then Grayson could falsely accuse Republicans of hastening death as well. But Grayson and Palin and Wilson, while popular on Facebook and YouTube and of course with their base, coarsen the debate and shame their party leaders, who, bullied by the peer pressure of polarization, choose to back them up.

Grayson’s correct assertions that the uninsured are dying at alarming rates and that Republicans need to join the healthcare reform debate in earnest could have been productive contributions to the healthcare debate but have been lost in the debate over how unctuous Grayson is.

Grayson, who is Jewish, apologized to the Anti-Defamation League for his Holocaust remark, but he remains defiant. A Grayson website ( — no kidding) declares that Grayson pulls no punches, doesn’t equivocate and, “when his opponents start manufacturing outrage instead of dealing with the issues, he does anything but apologize.”

Sen. Lindsey GrahamLindsey GrahamOvernight Finance: Dems seek probe of acting SEC chief | Defense hawks say they won't back short-term funding | Senate seen as start point for Trump infrastructure plan | Dems want more money for IRS Overnight Defense: Pentagon considers more troops for Afghanistan | McCain, Graham won't back short-term funding | GOP defends Trump rules of engagement McCain and Graham: We won't back short-term government funding bill MORE (R-S.C.) said a 24-hour news cycle and polarized environment have crushed bipartisan cooperation and fueled discord between the parties. At the First Draft of History Conference last week, Graham said it is up to the voters to change Washington.

“If you elect people that are jerks, you get what you want ... if you get rewarded for being a jerk, you’re going to keep doing it.”

Before voters in the 8th district of Florida decide whether to return Grayson to Congress in 2010, they should know he wore pink cowboy boots as a lawyer to keep the attention of juries. This means if Grayson is reelected, then all of us — Pelosi included — ain’t seen nothin’ yet.

Stoddard is an associate editor of The Hill.